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老公是否跟他爸学坏在外找情人?

  • 发布日期: 2018-10-25

我和男友本来去年就要结婚了,由于房子的过户手续出了点问题耽误了一下,就拖到今年了。但是最近发作的一些事,使得我对男友的情感产生了较为严重的质疑。我如今很疑心他对感情的忠实度。
 
My boyfriend and I were going to get married last year, but we were delayed until this year because of some problems in the house transfer procedure. But some of the recent episodes have led to more serious doubts about my boyfriend's feelings. I now doubt his fidelity to affection.
 
 
 
老公是否跟他爸学坏在外找情人?
 
Does the husband learn from his father to find lover outside?
 
 
 
男友原本就有很多方面都不尽如人意,他没有稳定工作,学历不高,这些在我看来都不是什么问题。最让我心里不舒适的是,他父亲有婚外情,而这个第三者就是他的同事。原本我并不是特别在意他父亲外遇的这件事,但那天晚上到他家时,在去他家路上,亲眼看见他父亲搂着女同事,一副亲昵的样子。在分手之前,他父亲还紧紧抱着那个女同事,并且亲了她。这一幕我都疑心本人的眼睛,可是当我们简直同时走到他家门口的时分,我发现方才的那一幕又是真实的。这让我觉得很不顺应。固然,男友早就晓得他父母关系不和,而这一切都是他那个父亲出轨形成的,但是他不断也没有通知我,假如不是亲眼看到,真的不置信这件事情就是发作在我的身边。如今,这件事对我的影响挥之不去,我担忧,有这样的父亲,我的男友还靠谱吗?私家侦探我该怎样办?
 
My boyfriend had a lot of unsatisfactory aspects. He didn't have a stable job and didn't have a high academic degree. All of these were no problems for me. What upset me most was that his father had extramarital affairs, and the third were his colleagues. I wasn't particularly concerned about his father's affair, but that night, on the way to his house, I saw him cuddling his female colleagues, looking intimate. Before breaking up, his father still hugged the woman colleague and kissed her. I was suspicious of my own eyes, but when we almost walked to his door at the same time, I found that the scene was real. This makes me feel very uncomfortable. Of course, his boyfriend had long known that his parents were at odds with each other, and all this was the result of his father's infidelity, but he kept telling me that if he hadn't seen it with his own eyes, I really didn't believe it would have happened to me. Now, the impact of this on me is lingering, I worry, with such a father, my boyfriend is still reliable? What should I do with private detectives?
 
 
 
私家侦探婚姻咨询师:你的疑惑是,准公公出轨有婚外情,那是不是你的男友就不靠谱也会在婚后背叛呢?这并不是绝对的。或者说这是个伪命题。由于不同的人都有本人的做人哲学和为人价值。你的准公公有外遇,也不见得就是他主动为之。即使是他主动为之,也还要剖析,这件事对你男友的影响终究会有多。再说了出轨这个问题不遗传,只需不是遗传、不可改动的基因,那么就不能认定老子出轨儿子就一定外遇。
 
Private Detective Marriage Counselor: Your question is, if your prospective father-in-law cheats and has an extramarital affair, is that your boyfriend will betray after marriage if he is not reliable? This is not absolute. Or this is a false proposition. Because different people have their own philosophy of life and human value. Your father-in-law has an affair, and it's not necessarily that he takes the initiative. Even if he takes the initiative to do it, he also needs to analyze the impact of this matter on your boyfriend. Besides, the problem of derailment is not hereditary, as long as it is not hereditary, unchangeable genes, then it can not be determined that Laozi derailed son must have an affair.
 
 
 
老公是否跟他爸学坏在外找情人?
 
Does the husband learn from his father to find lover outside?
 
 
 
你们既然相处到谈婚论嫁的时分,应该说听其言观其行也到了一定深度,要是有什么问题早该暴露了,至少会在一定水平上有所反映,从这一点来说,你大可不用庸人自扰。每个人运营婚姻的方式不同,父母辈的婚姻形式固然会对子女产生一定的影响,但这种影响却不是完整沿承上一代的生活细节。
 
Now that you are talking about marriage, you should say that you have reached a certain depth of view and behavior, if there is any problem should have been exposed, at least to a certain extent will be reflected, from this point of view, you do not have to worry about. Everyone runs a marriage in a different way, and the form of marriage of the parents'generation will certainly have an impact on their children, but this effect is not entirely inherited from the details of the life of the previous generation.


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